CONVERSATION

As you see.. i am going to say bit of my view towards a CONVERSATION..

Basically, what is a conversation?

So.. i suppose as a word is what you need to start a conversation..right?

the "movement" of word from a place to another.. that's a conversation....

{OK}..for me.. a conversation is  divided into 3 stages..

Here

On the way

There

(movement of word)

HERE

When you say something to someone..you say with a reason..you want to say..what you want to say..what you want others to understand..

ON THE WAY

This is when the word is "moving"..on the air..

THERE

This happen when the word/message reaches the person involve in the conversation..

Confusing and worthless some may say for what am i typing here..loll..

But there's a point..

actually it is like this.......

When a person starts a conversation, he/she wants to say something to another person...so the way he/she is going to present the thoughts in words matters..largely..when thoughts presented as words..it is important for the "filtering" process to take place, removing some sensitive/offensive/unnecessary/bold words..this way an argument is not evolved after thoughts turn to word..{HERE}

When the word leaves the mouth ON THE WAY to the ears of the listener..words may "fly"..words may be heard by someone else who should not be there to hear it..so the environment where the conversation is being held is also arguably important..therefore..whenever a conversation start, find a good place where others don't feel offended because certain issue discussed in a conversation may not bother much for the speaker and listener but to the others there is no guarantee for that..so be careful not to offend others for no reason getting yourself in trouble..{ON THE WAY}

OK..now reaching the listeners..certain "precaution" need to be carried out..what type of listener is he/she?? will he/she accept the point i am going to point out?? what condition[mentally and physically] is he/she at present??? all these must come in your head before you even open your mouth..as you see..at different condition.. the interpretation of the conversation may be taken differently..so being prepared before a conversation is important too.. {THERE}

so, my dear readers, remember to apply the HOT system in a conversation to portray good manners and understanding towards others and maintain a good relationship.. 

please comment ya..this is all just my view.... :D